Kisah kereta saya

Semalam, berlaku satu insiden yg tak diingini..ada sorang minah tu, tergesel lah kereta ku, parking undur bontot agaknya...hasilnya jadi mcm ni...satu calar yg agak panjang, kemek sikit kat bahagian atas, calar pendek kat belah bawah...

Kesian kereta saya...huhu

Masa minah tu call aku bgtau dia tergesel kereta, aku dlm meeting..dia pun sms lah mohon maaf. Masa tu aku pun tak tau apa perasaannya, rasa terkejut jek sikit, marah pun tidak, gelak pun tidak, pitam pun tidak...tp masa tgk hasil geselan minah tu, adalah rasa sedikit kuciwa...sian kete aku..duk elok2 diam2 aje kat parking pun ada org langgar...so while driving that evening, memang fikiran aku menerawang aje...bukan apa... risaukan en hubby...sebab dia kan memang sayang sgt kereta aku tu...mesti dia akan bebel2 punya..

Tgh aku khayal melayan blues dengan kuasa Allah, depan kete aku ada sebiji kereta...jeng..jeng..jeng...
spt gambar di bawah..sungguh sadis lagi keadaan kereta ini...hancur bumper belakang, senget2 dah rupe kete ni...huhuhu...

Nampaknya terlalu sedikit dugaan yg Dia berikan pada ku...buat malu aje nak rasa2 frust...kalo jadi mcm mamat kat depan ni mesti lagi sakit hati dan jiwa raga nak menghandlenya...huhuhuhu...

Nabi sallAllahu ‘alaihi wasallam bersabda:

“Sesungguhnya besarnya pahala itu tergantung pada besarnya ujian.  Dan sesungguhnya apabila ALLAH Ta’ala mencintai sesuatu bangsa maka ALLAH menguji mereka; barangsiapa redha maka ALLAH akan meredhainya.  Dan barangsiapa yang marah, maka ALLAH akan memarahinya.” (HR at-Turmudzy)

Kesimpulannya, aku berjaya memaafkan si minah tersebut..dgn doa moga dia berhati2 next time...dan hasilnya...heheheheh..en hubby membebel pada aku...spt biasalah.. SABAR ITU PADA TITIK YG PERTAMA... blink..blink..heheheheh

p/s: kalo encik azam sedang membaca kisah ini, sila maafkan isteri encik..dia tak bersalah dalam hal ini..hehehehhe..en azam yg baik hati...

Avril Lavigne - Darlin'

Darlin', you're hidin' in the closet once again

Start smilin', I know you're tryin' real hard

Not to turn your head away, pretty darlin'

Face tomorrow, tomorrow's not yesterday, yesterday

Pretty please, I know it's a drag

Wipe your eyes and put up your head

I wish you could be happy instead

There's nothing else I can do

But love you the best that I can

Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah

Darlin', I was there once a while ago

I know that it's hard to be stuck

With people that you love

When nobody trusts

Pretty please, I know it's a drag

Wipe your eyes and put up your head

I wish you could be happy instead

There's nothing else I can do

But love you the best that I can

Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, that I can

And you're not the only one whose been through

I've been there alone and now so are you

I just want you to know, want you to know

It's not your fault, it's not your fault

Your fault, your fault

It's not your fault, your fault

Your fault, your fault

Pretty please, I know it's a drag

Wipe your eyes and put up your head

I wish you could be happy instead

There's nothing else I can do

But love you the best that I can

Pretty please, I know it's a drag

Wipe your eyes and put up your head

I wish you could be happy instead

There's nothing else I can do

But love you the best that I can, that I can

Darlin', you're hidin' in the closet once again

Start smilin'

ps : Allah sentiasa bersama kita...insyaAllah.

Good Boss Vs Bad Boss

Daripada apa yg aku belajar, bukan semua orang dilahirkan untuk memimpin, walaubagaimanapun kepimpinan itu boleh dipupuk dari masa ke masa. Reminder for myself, if u are going to be a boss, do make sure u are not in the bad boss category...huhuhu

What is the difference between a good boss and a bad boss? Anyone who has experience of working for both might describe a good boss as someone who is:

· Supportive
· Flexible
· Empowering
· Empathic
· Inspirational
· Visionary
· Challenging.

Where as they might describe the worst boss that they have ever worked for as someone who:

· Talks but doesn’t listen (Selfish)· Loose in commands and controls
· Divides and conquers
· Plays at politics (have favorite person)· Treats you as a subordinate and not an equal (But not to the favorite one..huhuuh)· Believes they know everything and you know nothing

In other words good bosses earn your trust. They do what they say they will; they demonstrate their competence and show you that they care. A poor boss might know some of the latest theories, and say the ‘right words’, but they loose trust because their behaviour is incongruent with what they say.

En. Suami yg sangat baik hati

Sedikit bantuan yg amat besar maknanya telah dibuat oleh En Suami, mengubah letak atur perabot di ruang tamu, mengemas bilik belakang yg sarat dengan byk benda. Sehinggalah membuang barang-barang yg aku simpan konon2nya nak pakai nnt..hehehe.. Balik kerja semalam hati sangat tenang, tersenyum bila en.suami telah membantu mengemas rumah dgn bersungguh2. Alhamdulillah...

Setiap pasangan suami isteri itu saling lengkap melengkapi. Rumah tangga banyak pasang surutnya. Kadang-kadang bahagia, kadang-kadang bergadoh aje..tapi itulah pemanis rasa dlm mengharungi satu institusi keluarga. Selalu perkara yg remeh temeh pun boleh menyebabkan kita rasa nak marah. Cuma aku sangat bersyukur lepas mengaplikasikan Sabar itu pada Titik yg Pertama, byk tolerasi antara aku dan en suami. Sampai dia naik pelik, bila aku byk diam dan senyum aje bila dia menyakat tak tentu pasal..heheheh...kena tahan telinga...heheheh..

p/s : Sekurang-kurangnya bila aku balik rumah, hati aku sangatttttt bahagia..moga kebahagiaan ini diberkati Allah dan berpanjangan sentiasa...insyaAllah...

Welcome 2012

Buka tirai 2012 dengan rasa lesu, lembik dan loya...huhuhu